ok, so i'm in 8th grade and i tottally liked this guy (ricky) he is so cuttteee. Anyways he told me that if i had sex with him he wud be my boyfriend. well last week we had sex afterschool at my house...but it didn't feel good like everyone says. so lately it hurts when i pee and stuff comes out from down there. I'm scared to tell my mom cuz she'll know i had sex. what should i do?? Is that normal after sex? help